Assalamualaikum wbt,
This entry hanyalah luahan hati semata-mata. It really need to be expelled out. The only way, Blogging :)
Apa sebenarnya yang dimaksudkan dengan percintaan ? A typical answer can be percintaan ni satu perhubungan yang terjalin antara lelaki dan perempuan atas dasar suka sama suka dan sayang menyayangi. Am I correct ? Everyone have their own expression about love. Betapa hebtanya cinta ni dari aspek penyatuan. Just imagine how a man from Johor let say, and the girl from Kedah can fall in love. You know, that was huge different there. We're not live with them since childhood, growing together, but at the end, they UNITE !!
We share a lot. Agree ? We should agree on that. Dalam percintaan ni, banyak aspek yang dikongsi bersama. Perasaan itu for sure lahh. The first priority. Bila bercinta ni, mestilah kita berkongsi satu perasaan yang sama sesama pasangan, **actually ada banyak, but the obviously one, perasaan sayang dan cinta lahh kan. And the rest feeling, macam rindu, doubt, jelous, care and sorts. But actually the main aspect that I found on love is SHARING.
Dalam hubungan percintaan juga, it actually assess us on how good we are on ACCEPTING our partner. Kan ? Bayangkan kita takpernah tahu one inch of the person's live, so dengan sesi perkenalan yang kadang-kadang mengambil masa berbulan and almost drag to years, di situ kita mengasah skill penerimaan. Perangai, pendapat, nasihat all these thing actually hanyalah satu ujian, erti kata lain, hanya lahh nak menguji sejauh mana penerimaan kita terhadap sesuatu perkara. Dan dari situlahh, terjalinnya sikap tolerasi, cooperation, respect, appreciation. Itu sebablahh wujudnya kes penceraian ( only minor contribution ), pasangan kekasih " break " sana sini, sebabnya hanyalah kerana sikap-sikap tersebut masih terhuyung-hayang macam lalang. Dan sebab perasaan kita yang macam ' lalang ' ni, kadang-kadang the people decide to get back together setelah rationalism mengambil alih.
Takbanyak nak tulis, but take home message,
Spend few minutes,
Reflects yourself.
Think what LOVE actually meant.
" Why you need love? "
" What should I DO and DON'T when loving someone? "
" What's your AIM when loving someone? "
" Who you should love? "
And last,
" Why you should be LOVED? "
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